Turned out Heather and I were both telekinetic. For me sometimes it was like controlling construction bots in factorio, and I would drag a red rectangle around stuff to delete it. Was this entirely in my mind or was I using some electronic visual aid? Stuff about sitting around the living room attempting to move small objects around. Sometimes I could move things a little bit, but not reliably.
I wondered if there's a wizard school or something I could go to to develop this skill better.